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Well its a new month, and we gonna have to try again soon. I don't understand how it doesn't work so easily I mean if we do everything right how does it not work?

I dont get it my little boy can be so lovin and cute and other times i could just beat his little butt. He is finally startin to react to things like watchin a movie. the movie monster house scares him he crys when the old man comes on but love madagascar.. he laughs at the lion. it so amazin to see him now i can remeber when he couldnt do anythin and now he has such a pesonality. not aways a good one vut he got one. he is grownin up and he is startin to talk I can't wait to have another one. to see them role over and see how they react to thing diffrent the Jaidon.

i need to ask a question to all you other moms..or dads out there. my little boy is now 19 months old. and as of now he has been our only child and yeah we spoil him a little bit. but ever since he was little we always set boundaries and rules of do's and dont's. now my partner and i felt it was very important that we both agreed and were on the same page when it came to what we allow and what we dont and more importantly HOW we discipline him. however our plans must not be working all too well.

I have a lot to catch up on in the blog world and things that are worth note but perhaps the most important is the one I am currently dealing with. Introducing the subject of death and dying with kids traumatized by loss. My mother, who has been ill for years and has been hospitalized and operated on more in the last decade than anyone I know. Each time you hold your breath and hope all works out and you never give up the hope that there is fight left. I really thought after a kidney transplant things would be different. Well things are different but still not good.

It’s natural for gay parents to feel discomfort about their assimilation into the straight world. While you existed in your gay ghetto, straight people were the enemy. You despised, envied, feared, and longed to be them. You defended yourself against your deep feelings of inferiority by telling yourself you had no interest in their boring, monochromatic lives. “I am living on the edge,” you told yourself. “I am a minority fighting for survival. I have important life and death issues to think about.” These issues included:

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