I totally get where oyu are ocming form. i am totally out as well but yet i find myself sometimes intimidated i suppose owuld be an okay word to use by other people. especially in situations like that. being down south i am so affraid that a doctor would look at oyu like something is worng with oyu for wanting to start a family in a same sex relationship. so even though we know there isnt anything wrong it is completely normal for you to get a little nervous when it ocmes right down with saying it to a stranger whether it be a doctor or not.
~*Tracy & Crystalyn*~