if the thought of doctor's scare you, you can alway go at it at home for an ici first. that way you can get comfortable with the process, and your partner will feel involved.

i know a lot of women who have went at it alone for about three months, and if nothing happened, they moved on to the doctor then.

if you don't have any fertility issues and a regular cycle, you should be good to go.

best of luck!