I have been a leader with the Boy Scouts for 12 years. I agree on the Troop or Pack level this is not an issue. We do not discuss sexual orientation, dating or any related topic. We are also not a religious organization. We have scouts of all faiths-Buddhist, Muslim. What we do teach is outdoor skills. How to work in a group. Self reliance. Duty to God (in a broad since) Duty to self and Duty to country. I would say that 50% of our time is spent preparing and going camping, canoeing and Backpacking and the other 50% is spent preparing and performing community Service.