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http://cryokidconfessions.blogspot.com/2009/06/letter-to-prince-michael-...
"A letter to Prince Michael, Paris, and "Blanket" Jackson
By now you have probably heard all the major media outlets advertising that your dad is not your biological father, and that your mom is not your biological mother. I can only imagine how hard this must be, just days after your dad tragically died.
I am so sorry that you had to find out the truth this way, it's a cruel thing to do to a child - hide the truth about your identity and let strangers reveal it maliciously to you. Parents sometimes make these decisions (to keep a secret) thinking they are protecting their children. However, usually it backfires. Unfortunately, because of who your daddy was, this backfire has been made public and the entire world is watching you. It's not fair, but make the best out of a bad situation.
But don't feel alone. There are thousands (maybe millions) of kids out there just like you - conceived artificially and denied the right to EVER know who their biological parents are. You three can change this!! Stories are flying around that your dad's dermatologist is your biological father. If this is true, you deserve to know, to know him - as your father. Ask questions, demand answers! Not only can you find answers for yourself, you can help thousands of other kids and adults out there who were conceived the same way!
Your daddy will always be your daddy, nobody can take that away - and it will take time to mourn his passing. But you also have a biological father out there, and you carry half his genes. His is part of you - he even looks like you! While nothing can mask the loss of your daddy, I hope that your biological father will step up and give you guidance and love, and support through this rough time and as you grow up. You deserve that as children and as human beings.
You also deserve to know your biological mother, and I hope for your sake that she stands up and acknowledges herself to you and provides love and support. A child needs both a mom and a dad, and to have only one and lose him is tragic but to be denied the ability to know both biological parents is horrific.
If you ever come across this, in a few weeks, a few months, even a few years - please know that you're not alone and that there are many others out there pleading for these same rights...and that one day we will prevail."
Comments
Michael Jackson's Children
In response to Cryokidconfessions. You nitwit, why would you write this letter based on rumors? With any luck those children will never see it. What on Earth happened to common sense? Anyone should know that rumors are going to abound when a celebrity dies, especially Michael Jackson.
I have to agree with the
I have to agree with the last response.We know nothing about this, and to write a letter I feel is wrong. A child needs love not just a mother and a father, what about the millions of single parents out their raising healthy and loving children? Hopefully none of Michael Jackson's children well ever see this letter.
I felt that this note was
I felt that this note was respectful and did not suggest, that a child ONLY needs the love of his own (biological) mother and father. I doubt Michael Jackson's children will ever read this, but if they do, I'm sure that they will notice this letter was written by a donor conceived person who was purposefully and intentionally denied access to identifying information about her own biological father and extended family by the reproductive technology industry and our current legal system that enables this to happen. She wants to see the BEST of outcomes for Michael Jackson's children and does not want them to experience the loss, pain and frustration that she and many other donor conceived have had to endure in the past.
I completely disagree with
I completely disagree with this so called letter. Did Michael's kids personally tell you that they are denied access to their biological parents or even wish to know who they are. So what give you the right to compose such an ignorant, not well thought out and rather unneccesary letter, considering the recent passing of their dear father this letter is rather insensitive. Michael was more of a Father to his kids than any so called biological parents who abuse and hurt their kids so severly.
So if you would be so kind as to keep your critical beliefs to yourself, as others many find it rather hurtful than anything eles. Considering that you may simply be imposing your opinions and pain on others who may not feel the same as you do.
I reocgnise that this is YOUR personal pain, so please try to deal with it privately as your intentions may not have been melicious. I sincerly that you find your biological parents and pray that it is all you hope it to be.
To MJ's Kids
I want to meet Michael Jackson kids.
Paris Katherine Michael Jackson,
Prince Michael Jackson 1, and
Blanket Michael Jackson. I want to help them with there father death because I had the same thing with my step mother. I know how it feels to love someone and they just go. I’m having the same problem with the death of Michael Jackson to. I’m like all of them. Paris I stay in my room also and write letters to your father too, and Prince the first, I’m like you I don’t know what to do. I’m up set all the time because of the bad news, and Blanket, I cry all the time too. But what I do is stay in my room wondering were Michael Jackson went but you got to know that your father is going to always be in you heart and is always going to be with you no madder were you are. I want us to be friends. I love your father, his music and his dance move but guess what no one really no me no more. I stay in my room all day and night. People come there and try to get me to come out of my room but they can not get me out. I have been in the same spot you are in right now. But it is up to you it you want to be my friend. I don’t care I just want to help all out with the hole thing. OK. Well talk to ya’ll later.