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People assume they are sisters. And when they hold hands walking down the street, strangers stare in disapproval. <\/p>\n<p>In December 1997, the couple had a commitment ceremony in Salt Lake City and relocated to Minnesota. A year later, they moved to Massachusetts to attend graduate school.  That&#8217;s when they decided to have a child though a sperm donor. Ruth carried their first born. And under Massachusetts state adoption law, Kim and Ruth&#8217;s names are on Riley&#8217;s birth certificate.  A few years later, Ruth carried another son, Casey, when the couple returned to Utah. But because of state law, Kim is not legally considered Casey&#8217;s parent.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The biological thing doesn&#8217;t matter &#8211; these are my boys,&#8221; says Kim, a doctorate student.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t seem to matter to Riley that he has two mommies. 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